First Coffee Get Matched

For intentional daters only

Where has
dating gone?

One match. One coffee. A real conversation.

13 countries
60 min dates
0 swiping

Your matchmaker

We find the
right person for you

No profile browsing. No swiping. Our team reviews your preferences and finds someone genuinely compatible.

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92% match
87% match

No more texting purgatory

Straight to
a real coffee date

Every match is a date. 60 minutes at a vetted public cafe — we pick the spot, set the time, and all you have to do is show up. No pressure, no awkward goodbyes.

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SAT
15
Blue Bottle Coffee
2:00 PM

You're never alone

A real concierge
handles everything

From scheduling to cafe selection, a dedicated concierge coordinates your date so you never have to negotiate logistics. They check in before and after — so you always feel supported.

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You, Sarah, Concierge

Hi both! I found a great cafe for you two. How does Saturday at 2pm work?

Concierge

Works for me!

Saturday sounds perfect

Sarah

You're all set! Saturday 2pm at Blue Bottle Coffee. Have a wonderful time!

Concierge

Save the reveal for the cafe

Save the spark
for the cafe

Upload a selfie and get an illustrated avatar in 20 seconds. You'll recognize each other — but the real spark happens in person, not on a screen.

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From our members

Real stories from
real first dates.

Sarah

Sarah, 28

San Francisco

"I was so tired of swiping. My First Coffee date felt like meeting someone through a mutual friend — except the conversation was even better."

Priya

Priya, 31

Toronto

"The avatar feature made me feel safe going in. And my date was actually interesting — we talked the full 60 minutes and I wished it was longer."

Emma

Emma, 26

London

"Three dates in and I'm hooked. Even the ones that didn't become romantic were genuinely great conversations. Way better than staring at a screen."

Mei

Mei, 29

Singapore

"Finally, a dating app that respects my time. One person, one coffee, no games. That's literally all I ever wanted."

Questions?

Good to know

How does matching work?

We review your profile, preferences, and values to find someone genuinely compatible. No algorithms guessing from swipes — our system considers what actually matters for a great first date.

Is it safe?

Absolutely. You'll see an illustrated avatar of your match, not their photo — so there's no pressure before you meet. All users are verified, and dates happen at vetted cafes in public spaces.

What if we don't click?

That's completely okay. Not every date leads to romance, but most of our members say they still enjoyed the conversation. There's zero pressure — just two people sharing a coffee.

How much does it cost?

A single date is $33 in the US. That covers your match, cafe reservation, and the full experience. You only pay for your own coffee at the cafe.

What cities are available?

We're in 13 countries and growing. Check our community pages to find your city, or sign up and we'll notify you when we launch near you.

What does the concierge do?

Your concierge is a real person who coordinates the entire date — finding a time that works for both of you, selecting the cafe, and confirming all the details. They also check in before and after to make sure everything went smoothly. Think of them as your personal date coordinator.

Can I choose who I'm matched with?

You set your preferences — age range, faith, values — and we handle the rest. The magic is in meeting someone you wouldn't have found on your own.

This Saturday
could be different.

One person. One café. One real conversation.

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