Your matchmaker
We find the
right person for you
Our team reads your preferences and finds one person genuinely worth meeting from the Modern Orthodox Jewish community in New York City. Faith first — always.
Find your matchNew York City
R.J., 34
Product Manager
Modern Orthodox JewishNew York City
P.S., 36
Data Scientist
Modern Orthodox JewishMatch → Date → Done
Match on Monday,
meet by Saturday
Every match is a real date — confirmed and waiting. Our concierge picks the cafe and time. You just show up.
Find your matchHi both! I found a great cafe for you two. How does Saturday at 2pm work?
ConciergeWorks for me!
Saturday sounds perfect
ShiraYou're all set! Saturday 2pm at Think Coffee. Have a wonderful time!
ConciergeSave the reveal for the cafe
Save the spark
for the cafe
Upload a selfie and get an illustrated avatar in 20 seconds. The real spark happens in person, not on a screen.
Find your match
Simple Pricing
No subscription. No swiping. Just coffee.
First Coffee
per date
- Curated match from your community
- Café selected for you
- Full refund if canceled
How It Works
Your coffee spots in New York City
We've handpicked these cafes for their ambiance, space, and quiet enough-for-conversation vibe.
Irving Farm New York
71 Irving Pl
Gramercy Park
"Beloved NYC roaster since 1996 with a cozy Gramercy location. Perfect quiet corner for a meaningful first conversation."
Toby's Estate Coffee
44 Charles St
West Village
"Australian-style specialty coffee in charming West Village. Relaxed atmosphere ideal for getting to know someone."
From our members
Real stories from real first dates.
Shira, 33
NYC
"I'd been stuck between JSwipe — too casual, people not serious — and shadchanim — too slow, too formal. At 33, I've done both for years. Matched here and had a real date within a week. She already understood the modern ortho balance. No explaining required."
Talia, 35
Boston
"She knew shabbat, kashrut, the full modern ortho context — I didn't have to navigate any of it. Someone else handled the logistics. I just showed up to a café in Boston. Easiest first date setup in years."
Yoni, 34
DC
"I was skeptical, honestly. Another service claiming to be different. But we both confirmed, both showed up in DC, and it was the first date I'd had in a while that felt like two adults actually meeting — not performing for each other."
Ari, 36
NYC
"A café in Manhattan, she was modern ortho, understood everything without explanation. No 'is this going anywhere?' ambiguity — just a real conversation. I walked out knowing I wanted a second date. Called her before I got to the subway."
Learn More
Modern Orthodox Jewish dating guide
Community culture, what to expect, and how First Coffee works.
Frequently Asked Questions
How does pricing work?
$33 per date — pay only when you're matched and ready to meet. No subscription, no monthly fees, no hidden charges. One match, one coffee, one flat price.
How are matches made?
Our matchmakers hand-pick one compatible person based on your faith background, preferences, and values. Faith alignment is central — you never have to explain what matters most on a first date.
Is my personal data safe?
Absolutely. We use bank-level encryption and never share your data with third parties. Your profile is only visible to your match.
What happens on the coffee date?
You meet at a curated cafe for 60 minutes. No pressure, no awkward exit — just a real conversation. Exchange contact info if there's a connection.
What if I don't feel a connection?
That's completely fine. No obligation to exchange numbers. We respect your limited time — we'll find you another match that fits better.
How does AI photo enhancement work?
Upload a casual photo and our AI creates an illustrated avatar in 20 seconds. Your match sees your style, not your face — the real spark happens at the cafe.
